The journey story part 5 finally by : Sayan Chakraborty
Story#5
Some of the hardships people encounter in marriage, study, and work found in this story.
Name : Samrah Zafar
I want to tell you about my life today .
Do it was all started in 1988 when my sis was born, my mother was forced to married with a man because of financial issues and the illetracy . A year later her husband died because of illness. She started living with her bloodily( maika) family where everyone was feeling frustrated to have her back even at meals she was feeling a bit nervous to sit with her own family .Her brother's wife (bhabhi) started ear filling her husband(my mamoo) wrongly about her and her daughter ( my sis) . My mother started living a miserable life like living with devils in hell . Everyday my mother was woken up with a desire to die .
Although She has a government job so she made spending for her necessities . Her parents, brother and sister were v.angry to her and her daughter and blamed her for every misfortune happened. My mother's brother ( my mamoo) has a son(my cousin) having a same age with my sister. So Everyday there was a fight between them and everyone in the house blamed my sister for it. Every year was passed by those circumstances until then my father sent a marriage proposal for her and everybody in the house was bit in shock and didn't want to see it to happen. Even my father's family too refused to marry with a widow but it happened fortunately in 1993. At starting to this marriage my mother started leaving my sister at her maika( bloodily family) because she thought everything has changed after her marriage. So my momani( my mom's bhabhi) got a controller to control my sis and started ear fillings in which she's good at . My momani astrayed her from my family ( father and brothers)
In 1994 my (big) brother born and in 1995 i was born then my (small) brother in 1997. We were financially unstable because my father was lazy to be on jobs . We lived a miserable life where my sister everyday did a fight without any reason . She hardly passed a matriculation exam and my mom made her passed to intermediate exam with hardship because my mamoo's family (illetrate family)
didn't let her study and said wrong things to her because they have a controller. She started having many affairs with strangers and we can't control her because everytime she threat to leave her house and my mamoo's family was there in the background to support her or u can say want to see us living a miserable frustrated life because of jealousy as my father belongs to a highly educated and well settled family. My father was too rich but he lost but by bit in every business he did because of indecisive nature. Many years were passed like this. She was not a highly graduated so there was a difficulty in her marriage.
With her increasing age she started breaking things , hid our books , came home late and gave us a tortured life.
My mamoo's family put in my sister's ear that my family, my mom did not let her marry etc as there was a difficulty in her marriage proposals. She started dating more. She started teaching(in Montessori) in a school and earn a v.few amount which she thought it was everything. Meanwhile me and my brothers were studying. Years later I chose medical field and they chose a commerce field. Our family started having a good financially stable life and then one day a proposal came for my sister. Everybody in the relatives was in bit shock then a marriage happened and we didn't investigate any thing about them . They are rich but illetrate family ( including his mom), my sister's in laws.
through back to childhood my khala wanter my sister to be her daughter in law but despite of her nature and my mamoo secretly wrong filled ears( because he wanted her daughter to be married instead, his daughter is still single fortunately) of my khala that proposal was broken.)))))
In 2016 , her daughter born and year later another daughter and their upbringing is so strange because they are mentally sick people . My sister's husband was fully in controlled by his mom and sisters. For these five years he made her got out of the house many times even with her daughters because her mother in law doesn't like her v.much and shows she does house chores inspite my sis don't do anything. Now it's the 5/6th time he did the same let her out of the house and doesn't want to see her and their daughters. Through back to this tragedy my family was preparing to find a proposal for me last month and was discussing about preparations then this happened (My sis is currently living with us) and i don't know what will happen if her marriage is ended then we will all( my brothers, mother) live a miserable life that's what we did in childhood and we will be dead soon. Now I'm thinking about my mom (because she's ill and diseased person) and to just focus on my career and post graduation that's only option (no one will marry a girl whose sis is divorcee) I have at last.....my story .....
p.s there's no divorce yet and I'm feeling better now after writing here what im feeling and gone through such circumstances.
To see the rest of the story, visit our telegram channel here